Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Suggestion Box for New Topics

Please post your suggestions for new topic threads in the comments section of this thread. Not every suggestion will necessarily result in a new thread, but I'll try to include as many topics as may be relevant.

31 comments:

Elizabeth said...

Resources for Families to explain this to children

Dot said...

The following is taker from the SAving Bellevue site and is a very interesting question. I would like to see this as thread so it can be discussed.

Bellevue needs a Pastor not an Evangelist or a Preacher

Steve's Speaking Dates

October 22-25 First Baptist Church Milan TN Steve Preaches Wednesday Night)

October 30, 2006 - 7:15pm (Steve Gaines sermon), Mississippi Baptist Pastors' Conference (Monday)



November 14-15, 2006- 11:15 am, sermon, Tennessee Baptist Convention - Chuck Taylor benediction (Tuesday & Wednesday)



January 8-12, 2007- expository preaching practicum, Liberty Theological Seminary, (Lynchburg, VA) (Monday-Friday)



January 24-26, 2007- 1:45pm, sermon, Wheeler Grove Baptist Church, Woodstock, GA ( Wednesday- Friday)



February 7-9, 2007- 6:30, sermon, First Baptist Church, (Woodstock, GA) (Wednesday---Saturday)



February 15, 2007 - Baptist Identity Conference (Thursday) http://www.uu.edu/events/moreinfo.cfm?id=1664



March 21-23- Real Evangelism Conference Higher Ground Baptist Kingsport Tennessee (Tuesday--Thursday)

Note: There may be a lot more. This is all that could be found to date.

Bin Wonderin said...

Can you add a site meter at the bottom like the old guy had?

Bin Wonderin said...

Commercial Appeal 10-5-06

"Any Bellevue member with a question or concern is invited to contact a deacon or the church office. Bellevue's pastor, deacons, staff, and virtually all its congregation are committed to restoring fellowship between church members in a Biblical manner."

Does this square with how Alvin Ellis was treated? Dr. Gaines told him to find a new church.

New BBC Open Forum said...

bin wonderin,

Oh... I just said that out loud. Funny, I thought it was German!

I'll give the site meter thing a shot. No promises, but I'll try. Maybe some polls, too.

Bin Wonderin said...

Glad you got a good laugh.

The add-on stuff like counters are usually very very easy.

If you need a free site to host pictures to share with family & friends try http://www.flickr.com/

BibleFellowshipTeacher said...

Who really knows about the finances of Bellevue? We are told we have no debt so where is the money being spent? Is it true we have $25,000,000 in the bank. Is it true we are on target to take in $32,000,000 as projected by the finance committee?

New BBC Open Forum said...

Site meter is up and running! Will work on poll(s) another day.

Elizabeth said...

Does this apply to our situation? Wondering...
http://www.visionforumministries.org/issues/cross_examination/honor_as_a_defining_principle.aspx

Elizabeth said...

http://www.visionforumministries.org/
issues/cross_examination/
honor_as_a_defining_principle.aspx

Copy and paste, but run it all together...

New BBC Open Forum said...

elizabeth,

Here it is in a link.

Sounds like the old "if you don't like it leave" and "the pastor isn't accountable to anyone" stance. I don't think anyone I've heard asking questions could be said to "despise" (the word used in that article) Steve Gaines. I've stated, as have others, that I love him in Christ, I pray for him and his family and Bellevue and everyone involved in this every day, and I want nothing more than full reconciliation along with repentence if there is proof of wrongdoing and future accountability instead of "business behind closed doors as usual," but I don't like some of the things he's done (mocking his flock in front of another congregation, for example) or his behavior which often seems arrogant, intimidating (bullying from the pulpit as evidenced by his sermons on 9/24 and 10/8 as well as a few more shots on the evening of 10/22), and sometimes less than honest (some of his explanations in the 9/24 information meeting and the tour mark-ups). There have been some serious accusations made in regards to the finances at Bellevue, and those making the allegations say they've tried and tried to handle the situation according to Matthew 18, only to be turned away by the people allegedly involved in the alleged activities. Where does one draw the line as far as what one is willing to overlook and "submit" to?

notastepfordsheep

New BBC Open Forum said...

Just a note to everyone:

You can go to the Help section of Blogger.com (little icon in the upper left corner of the main page) to learn how to make URLs linkable. Don't sweat it if you can't get it to work (it took me several tries at first to figure it out), but perhaps everyone doesn't know where to find that information.

BibleFellowshipTeacher said...

Is it right for our church to hold $25,000,000 (that's 25 million dollars) in the bank instead of spending it on the lost? Why are we holding that much money? I can think of a lot of good uses for that money here in Memphis and around the world.

revrn said...

The current situation at Bellevue raises a larger question re: church government and what the Bible teaches in this regard. Do Baptist churches at the current hour follow a Biblical pattern of government?

choice_is_yours said...

We don't want you to end up exhausted like the last blog owner. I highly recommend that you designate a 24-hour once/week "sabbath" for this blog's comment feature.

For example, at sun down every Saturday, set the "allow comment?" setting to NO.

Then, 24 hours later, switch it back on. (Please leave an announcement each week so people will know what has been done).

If you want to ensure all your visitors are getting regular time away from this, you might investigate and find a way to make all reading material on this blog "hidden" during that same 24 hr. time period every week.

I think this would be good, because some people have been posting on this topic at least once/day since August. Their attitude will improve if they go back to regular weekly rest on this topic.

By the way: you can also change the comment setting to "No" except for the hours of 1pm -9pm the rest of the week if you want. You aren't getting paid enough to be on 24 hour duty.

Also: Can we start thinking of other uses for the open forum? After all, the Lord only knows how this Steve-Mark situation will eventually resolve. But blogging will be a part of BBC life for at least several years. Let's see if we can't start shifting some focus off of the Steve-Mark matter and onto growing this blog into (additional/alternative) kingdom uses.

As a group, what kind of church activities can we do here? As a Bible Fellowship?

Can we have announcements?

Can we discuss Jr. Hill's sermon after Sunday? Can we have reviews of Christian books? Can we talk about the important upcoming election like Mike Bratton is doing?

Surely some of us desire to talk about something other than Steve-Mark, worthy as that topic is, there are other things for us to talk about? A steady stream of stressful topics can turn all of us bitter. Can we have discipleship materials? Ideas? Anyone? Can we have interviews with church leaders (please... on ANY topic other than the Mark-Steve matter)?

Blogging can be used to do things that will build up BBC. We need to be doing that, especially in this time of darkness.

New BBC Open Forum said...

choice_is_yours & revrn,

Thank you for your suggestions. I've been working on some "more positive" topics for discussion, too. I will certainly take your suggestions to heart and try to come up with some new topics that might divert some attention away from the "Mark-Steve" situation. This is the "BBC" forum though, so I'd rather keep it somewhat relevant to Bellevue. Perhaps you would like to engage Mike in a discussion of the election, but PLEASE take it to his blog! LOL!

As for turning off the comments for a day, that's an interesting idea. Not sure I want to do that now as some people may think the whole site is shut down for good (not everyone reads announcements, you know), but it would be good to get away for a day every week. I can certainly understand why the first guy packed it in. This could take its toll on you if you let it. I'll consider it. I get a traffic report every night after midnight. Maybe there's a day of the week with less traffic.

Weekly sermon discussions, if they didn't turn into a "raking Dr. Gaines over the coals" session, would be okay. I've refrained from starting a thread on the sermons from the evening services of 9/24, 10/8, and 10/22 as well as the morning service of 10/8 for that very reason, but I've seriously considered it. After all, he pretty much raked some of his sheep over the coals. There are some quotes from those sermons that really struck me. I haven't ruled it out yet.

Announcements would be fine. Got any?

Allofgrace has a blog for discussing Southern Baptist matters that you might be interested in. The link ("SB Discussion") is in the sidebar of the main page of this blog.

PrayerWarrior said...

"I exhort therefore, that first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks be made for all men: . . . I Timothy 2:l

The following prayer guide would be wonderful to use at such a time as this as we pray for Bellevue:

PRAYER FOR DIFFICULT SITUATIONS

Ackknowledge God's sovereignty and praise Him.
Thank Him for guidance and the opportunity to promote healing.

What is God wanting to teach through the situation?

Ask God:
1)for the Holy Spirit to convict those who have done wrong
2)to have the right words and attitude when talking with those involved
3)to give you His love for the person(s)involved
4)for humility in dealing with the problem
5)for all involved to know the truth
6)how to handle the situation His way and the courage to do it

Pray against:
Blindness to sin
Denial
Defensiveness
Divisiveness
Distortion fo the truth
Disunity among believers
Unwillingness to hear truth
or incurrate hearing
Cold/closed/hard hearts
Fear
Lying
Destructive protectiveness
Stubborness
Rationalization

choice_is_yours said...

Can we add some of Dr. Whitmire's musical selections as background music to this place?

Just wondering.

Truth Hunter said...

Have you considered setting up a free email account so we can communicate with you privately? I have a question that I do not feel comfortable asking publicly.

New BBC Open Forum said...

choice_is_yours asked:

"Can we add some of Dr. Whitmire's musical selections as background music to this place?"

Are you serious? Maybe Dueling Banjos would be more appropriate!

I'll see what I can do. There are those pesky copyright things one has to be careful of.

MOM4 said...

I don't know about others, but my children are seeking more about learning the Bible and how it applies to our lives today. References have been made about emotionalism, my children are tired of the emotional ups and downs, especially at camps. They are interested in actual studies from wise men and women.

outsidelookingin said...

Interesting topic for discussion:

"How much money is paid to men who fill our pulpit and other pulpits?"

and

"Is this traveling road show that is going on with pastors across the SBC money laundering inside the church?"

and

"If a Pastor stands before a congregation who is giving him a large amount of money for filling the pulpit, is it ok for him to sing praises about the man who allowed him to come speak?"

Isawit said...

I have read many critical comments
on how Mark Sharpe didn't have a right do exercise Matthew 18.

If a respected staff member came to you with information and documents that could hurt the office of the pastor..What would you do?

How many months should you try to resolve without cooperation?

I watched the movie "Luther" as someone suggested. I am grateful Martin Luther questioned authority. I have always thought we should follow
like the dumb sheep.

but now I'm not a stepford sheep either..:)

New BBC Open Forum said...

eccl.7:25,

Congratulations! It's good to see another brother (or sister) fall off that blamed fence! I don't care which "side" you fall on (okay, NASS does, but NBBCOF doesn't), just as long as you think for yourself and don't remain perched atop the fence. We'll all be better off (and I trust much happier) when the fence is gone.

New BBC Open Forum said...

mkw asked: "Wasn't there a thread somewhere that asked a question regarding employer/employee relationships as pertains to the issues being discussed?"

That was briefly touched on in the "Prayer is the Key" thread just after midnight on October 30th. At least that's the only place I could find it.

You may want to use the newly created "What Would You Do?" thread.

It sure would be nice if they'd let us have an index on this site!

New BBC Open Forum said...

truth hunter,

I'm probably going to kick myself over this when my mailbox fills up with hate mail (not implying from you), but try this:

notastepford_sheep@yahoo.com

New BBC Open Forum said...

mkw,

I was just sitting here trying to come up with something. I think that's a worthy topic for discussion, and I'll work on it.

I'd like to do a poll for some topic, too. Any ideas?

Thanks.

allofgrace said...

nbbcof, mkw,
I think perhaps you two have hit upon what all this may really be about (from God's perspective anyhow). I don't pretend to know why all this is happening. I do know that God is in control and is certainly not taken by surprise in all this. I believe that everything happens for a reason, though we can't always see what that reason is at the time. God may be working out a multitude of things in this current situation, but as I said, I believe you two have hit upon at least one thing that should get the attention of all of us...examining our own walk with Christ. Churches are made up of individuals..as those individuals go...so goes the church corporately. No doubt all this has raised some questions...some that I think are very important things that we should take a close look at in the scriptures..but at the end of the day..we are each responsible for our own walk. I'm a big picture kind of person, which means that I tend to try to look past what's going on at the moment and try to discern what underlies the current problem. I take that from the story of King David's sin with Bathsheba, and all the resulting sins that accompanied it. My mentor once pointed out to me that David's adultery and subsequent murder of Uriah were the manifest sins of a deeper root sin. That is revealed in what Nathan the prophet said to him...2 Samuel 12,v.7"...This is what the Lord says:...v. 9...'Why did you despise the word of the Lord by doing what was evil in His eyes?'...v. 10..'..because you despised me and took the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your own.'" Twice the Lord, speaking through Nathan used the word "despise". David had despised God's word...and despised the Lord..harsh words, considering this is the man God called "a man after God's own heart." To despise something means to hold it as having little or no value. In this passage, is revealed the root sin behind David's adultery and murder which followed it. Perhaps, and I'm only guessing here, we should look past what's going on on the surface, and each of us examine ourselves, and ask God to reveal to us whatever might be lurking in our own hearts. Thanks sisters, for making an important point.

BR said...

New thread suggestion
"What do you think about the scheduling of the Lord's Supper on the same evening service that there is an "announcement" that may be controversial in nature?"
Is this an attempt to "bring peace and reconsiliation or to quiet the opposition?

Memphismom02 said...

Suggested new topic:

In light of current issues at Bellevue, do you plan to contribute to the 2006 Love Offering? Do you believe that the past Love Offerings have been wisely invested in Bellevue, and in the way they were promised? Can we trust the financial committee and the staff with another million dollars?

New BBC Open Forum said...

Moved from another thread:

MKW said...

Due to the lack of a suggestion box on the current front page, may I suggest 1) that the suggestion box be moved back, and 2) that a new thread be created under the title, "Bro. Steve has apologized to Mark Sharpe"?

7:17 AM, November 16, 2006